Pursuit of Happiness
By Maria Young
Can we really obtain happiness? Or are we like racing greyhounds, chasing an artificial
lure around a track only to cross the finish line empty handed. Pursuit is an act
of striving for something...the effort made to try to achieve or obtain something
over a period of time. So what are we striving for? What is happiness? Happiness
is an emotion caused or characterized by pleasure, contentment, or joy.
Well...if happiness is identified by pleasure and contentment...then I've caught
happiness a time or two; just to see it escape through the cracks of my hands. As
we all know, pleasure comes in many forms. Many of which satisfies for only short
periods at a time. Is pleasure and contentment directly proportional? During our
pleasure, whether it's eating a double chocolate sundae or losing ten pounds, we're
only content as long as the pleasure lasts. But as soon as we gain our ten pounds
back from eating too many chocolate sundaes, our contentment flees. How direct can
you get. Now...there's only one form of joy, by definition, that we need to explore.
JOY. Umm? Now joy is a much different form of happiness. Or is it happiness at all,
and why is it so different? In my experience I have faced many forms of happiness
by pleasure or contentment. But there's only one form of joy that I've experienced...and
it's completely unexplainable.
Why?
According to science, matter is the only explainable substance. But when it comes
to things of the mind and soul--which can't be classified as matter--they just can't
be rationalized. But...through my experience...I can. Joy is spiritual and can be
defined by an overwhelming feeling of gladness. So what draws the line between joy
and happiness? Because joy is obtainable. It's not being able to wipe the smile
off your face, when you're life's in turmoil. It's being content when you have everything
and remaining content when you have nothing. Joy is...not putting your hopes in
material stuff (things that fade with time and eaten by moths)...but having hope
and realization that no matter what happens in this life, there's an exceptional
life to come. Happiness is a pursuit, but joy is a journey.
Dale Young
http://redcyc.com
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